What's better than a blow job?
Today I'll be sharing another snippet of a chapter of my upcoming e-book "The A to Z Guide to Thriving in the First Year of Marriage". Let's take a look at Chapter "U".
Most men LOVE blow jobs, but do you know what they love more than that? Unwarranted blow jobs. Meaning he didn’t have to wash the dishes, take you to a really nice dinner, or give you a back rub first. He simply gets a blow job because it's Tuesday. Now I'm gonna be honest with you. Those things I mentioned before are the things that get me in the mood. When I notice the hubby going the extra mile in our household or in his business that's when I want to blow him most. The secret is that I don’t mention that that's reason why I want to do it. I've done that before, and I quickly learned that my pity job didn't excite him as much. So instead I work hard to create the illusion. I make it seem like he's receiving favor because he simply exists. That usually means I wait until he's on the computer hard at work, spin the chair around, and get to business. Check out the other tips to see what you can do to keep it spicy.
LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE, PORN STAR
You can do it put your neck into it!!! Now how would you suck it if you knew there was money in it for you at the end. Think about that and go for what you know. You also have to know what your partner likes. I've watched enough porn with my husband to know what kind of head visually turns him on. The women slurp, spit, make eye contact, use their hands, and push the limits to make it seem that it's so big that she's choking on the D. So that's what I do too when I don’t want to be bobbing and weaving for 15+ minutes. Girl, create whatever fantasy you need to so that you don’t end up with a sore neck.
THE WETTER THE BETTER
Lick it, slob on it, spit on it, or get some flavored lube. Do whatever you have to do to make it easier to glide your hands up and down the shaft.
PLAY SIMON SAYS
This one is pretty self-explanatory, but basically do whatever your partner tells you to do and do it like you love it.
SEND TEXT MESSAGES TO GET HIM IN THE MOOD
Try some of these to get your partner excited whether you're apart or in the same room:
- I wish you were cuming down my throat right now.
- I just made myself cum thinking about you. What time are you coming home? I've got a surprise for you...
- Take a shower and get in the bed. I plan to suck it when I get home.
- You have no idea how bad I want to suck your d*** right now.
Or use your favorite emoji's to covey the message (my personal fav's are the eggplant, cat, and water emoji). Do whatever you need to do to make it clear that you're sucking d*** on sight when you get home.
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